We are excited by the discovery of Applied Emotional
Intelligence. There is Emotional Intelligence (EI) as
described by Daniel Goleman and there is Applied Emotional
Intelligence which seems much more practical and pragmatic.
From coaching and Leadership Development work I was looking
for a way to make the ‘soft’ side of leadership accessible
to people.
For some time now I have felt
there was something missing in work with leaders on
organisational change… If a change methodology could be
co-created and they could see what we would need to do,
then I could explain to them that how they behaved was
important to whether or not the change would be
successful, but there didn't seem to be a consistent
model to share with them around ensuring the right
behaviours. So, it was with a big ‘Ah-hah!’ that I read
about Applied EI and realised that it could provide a
consistent model/tool. For we know that Leadership can
be taught and this tool seems to have great potential
for us in the development of leaders.
Tim Sparrow and Amanda Knight, in their book Applied
Emotional Intelligence, have divided the concept of
emotional intelligence into two parts: What they call
Intrapersonal intelligence (self) and what they call
Interpersonal intelligence (others).
Figure one:
It makes perfect sense: I can’t manage myself until I
know myself well. And only after I know myself well,
will I be able to be aware of and learn to know others.
This knowledge then helps me to manage the relationship
so that I can achieve my/our objectives. Being effective
in all four areas leads to effective overall
performance.
Our thinking and feeling together give us what we do, so
it is vital to understand the feeling aspects of our
attitudes, even if 'feeling' is seen by many in business
as a 'dirty word'. Emotional intelligence integrates
feeling, thinking and doing. All of us have the capacity
to behave with emotional intelligence however most of us
have interferences (beliefs, attitudes and habits) which
stop us. In other words Performance = potential –
interference (based on Timothy Gallwey’s work).
The interesting part comes when we can prove that
improving emotional intelligence improves business
performance. Just thinking that it sounds good isn’t
enough and we can point to research done by Dr. Ben
Palmer of Genos Pty Ltd in Australia and Sue Jennings of
Qantas Airways with sales reps from a pharmaceuticals
company. This showed that the development group (who
received training via workshops and coaching in EI over
a period of seven months) out performed the control
group by 12% on average in their sales! They have also
done research to prove that sales reps with higher
emotional intelligence out perform their colleagues who
have a lower score. To find out more you can see the
article in Organisations & People, the AMED Quarterly
Journal. The May issue (Volume 14, Number 2) is a
special themed issue on Emotional Intelligence.
Tricia has agreed to be a member of the CAEI (Centre for
Applied Emotional Intelligence) committee, so will be
keeping a finger on the Applied EI pulse.
If you’re interested to find out more:
Centre for Applied Emotional Intelligence
Book review,
Applied EI
Book review,
The Book of You & Me